Here will try keep you posted on any regional munches coming up. To submit a date for your local munch, or special even please write to submission

What is a "Munch"?

It is a gathering where people meet to discuss the BDSM and D/s lifestyles. They are generally held in restauraunts which are moderately priced, and every attendee is responsible for paying for his/her own meals. The dress is usually casual, so please no fetish garb that may draw unusual attention to the group as a whole. A munch is NOT a "playparty" so please treat them as a way to meet people on a personal level and not as a place to meet your next Dom/sub. However, a munch is an excellent place to arrange a first time meeting for someone you have either met online or through a personal ad.

In general, they are a great place to meet like minded people in your local areas. And as always, play safe and enjoy!

California Complete Calender of Events

Our Group, the Orange County Munch Group Meets on Third Saturdays of every month at Bennigans at South Coast Plaza from 2:30 to 5:00 pm. Our munches are very casual and newcomers are quickly made to feel at ease at them. We also have specially scheduled munches for visiting friends. email for more information.

caryl's BDSM Pages - California Calender

Conneticut Bi-Monthly Munches

For more information:

Metro DC First Thursday Munch

What? First Of The Month 'Munch (FotMM)
Where? Greenbelt Benningan's
Why? Tradition :)
When? The 1st Thursday of every month starting at 8:00pm
Who? Kinky Residents of and Visitors to Greater DC

Reservations will be for LMNOP. If you need directions, ping me or anon FTP them:

Burgermunches are social gatherings of/for people interested in BDSMetc. The DC FotMM includes taking over one corner of a fern bar, eating ok food, talking, socializing, joking, geeking...

This 'munch is not a playparty. Folks have been known to show off new toys/outfits/markings, and we occasionally have a couple of local leather crafters in attendance, and the restaurant staff is pretty mellow, but please don't mistake Bennigan's for playspace.

See you there!
Ms. Jahlinda Mocha, Munch Top :) : Wannas will usually be ignored. : Repeat wannas will be giggled at, and may be : posted for the general amusement.

Please check your phobias at the door



P.O. BOX 812

Meetings 2nd & 4th Fridays of the Month at 9:00 P.M.
(Confirm dates on PEP info line)


PEP is an Intelligent, Caring, Support and Social group for sincere adults interested in or experienced in B&D Dominant/Submissive S&M Erotic Love relationships, as well as other unique forms of alternative or erotic love expression and fantasy play. PEP treats the B&D/S&M community with acceptance, caring, respect and dignity.


Newcomers, old-timers, straight, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, singles and couples, TS and TV, dominants and submissives, foot worshippers, infantilists, spankers and spankees, Slaves, Mistresses, Masters, and all fetish lovers. PEP is not a sex or swingers club, but PEP provides Companionship - Networking -Discussions - Demonstrations - Education and Information. We provide a safe and discreet meeting place for respectable, sincere, loving and consensual kinky people - people just like yourself, who have an interest in sex and loving beyond the vanilla. Welcome to the fun, enthusiasm, excitement and the joy!


$35.00 for first time male visitors
$20.00 for couples or men who have previously attended PEP
$10.00 for students with college ID


We ask all to bring food, munchies and non-alcoholic beverages to share.

Dungeon space is available during our Friday night meetings/parties.



Mistress Sheila 215.572.1715 or Mistress Donna 215.493.1112

PEP Phila. Info Line: 215.552.8155 (Verify meeting dates & programs)

PEP Nationwide General Info: 908.284.8040 and 908.284.8028

Come out & meet like-minded kinky people who have an interest in sex and loving beyond the vanilla and who share your enthusiasm and passion about this lifestyle.


P.E.P. PHILADELPHIA MEETING PLACE: 215.552.8155 Voice Mail

PEP S&M Groups Around The Country:

OTHER EVENTS in the Phila area:

Knot for Everyone is a newly formed BDSM group in the Central New Jersey area. Our first meeting was held November 8, 1997. The group will serve as both an educational and social vehicle for those in the area interested in BDSM (Bondage, Discipline,Domination, Submission, Masochism).

We are planning to meet once a month in the Union/Middlesex County area (we do not have a permanent location as of yet). Each meeting will have a brief lecture or demonstration on related issues (bondage, hotwax play, flogging, etc.) followed by time for socialization and play.

If you are interested in being added to the mailing list for "Knot for Everyone" email


The announcement contains either the e-mail address or phone numbers of those that can best assist you with concerns, questions or further information. However, if you want to contact the individual that made this posting I can be reached at:

Atlanta GA

The best thing is to simply join the Atlanta BDSM newsletter Put SUBSCRIBE on the subject line. It will immediately send you an up-to-the minute listing of the sights and sounds of the Atlanta Scene.

Vancouver Canada Munch

The location: Doll & Penny's Cafe - 1167 Davie, near the Shopper's Drug Mart (near Thurlow).

The dates: The first and third Wednesday of every month.

The times:  These are dinner munches (the restaurant has a $5 minimum order, and I do ask people to order something, they're kind enough to go out of their way to accomodate us).  They begin at 6:30pm, and end whenever the group breaks up (typically around 8-9 pm depending on who's there)..

What is this munch thing?  The munches held at Doll & Penny's are laid back social gatherings.  There will be no play and no demonstrations in the middle of the cafe.  We generally sit around and chat about the local scene, or really anything that comes to mind.  It's a great way to meet newcomers in the scene, or people who have been in the scene for a while and like meeting to chat in a relaxed atmosphere.

Contact for any further information.  Otherwise, see you there!


"ESCAPE" is a group of people who share an interest in BDSM. Our purpose is to provide a safe, non-sexual environment for those who wish to learn and socialize. We provide an educational forum for men and women of all sexual orientations and lifestyles to explore and understand the aspects of their sexual natures which involve any form of erotic power exchange.

For information on these or other upcoming events, visit our web site at: or send e-mail to

You may also mail us at: ESCAPE / PO Box 36494 / Richmond, VA 23235, or call our information hotline at (804) 330-9538 X 369. Note: Email which contains nothing more than "send more info" will be ignored; if you have specific questions we will be happy to answer them.

ESCAPE Richmond, VA (804) 330-9538 X 369 Information/RSVP voicemail

The Pacific Northwest

The Spokane Munch Group meets every Fourth Saturday at Godfathers Pizza on North Division. Email Announcement and Discussion list. Additional information available from

"Rose City Discussion Club (RCDC) is the largest open pansexual BDSM, alternative sexuality, and fetish club in the Pacific Northwest"

For More Info Please Check Their Website: Hotline (503) 650-7052

NEXT RCDC MEETING: MONDAY, JANUARY 26TH, 7:00-9:00 PM at the Portland Conference Center, 300 NE Multnomah Street (off MLK Blvd.) in Portland.

MEETING TOPIC: The Old Guard: "Village Elders" Share Some of the Rituals and Traditions Behind Today's BDSM/Leather/Fetish Scene . Workshop will also include a few demos.

Free parking if you let the parking attendant know you are attending the RCDC event. Members $5.00 and non-members $8.00. Includes newsletter, resources, and light snacks. All adults welcome. RCDC hotline (503) 650-7052.


WHAT IS A MUNCH; A group of friendly, like-minded kinky folks gather for food and beverage for social. Look for a large table(s) of friendly people and ask "is this the munch" to find. Since munches occur in a public place, appearance and behavior is fairly "vanilla" (conversations are scene friendly and open).

EVERY WEDNESDAY MUNCH (the original), Blue Moon Tavern (McMenamins), NW 21st and Glisan, 7:00 pm.

EVERY SATURDAY MUNCH, McMenamins 1716 NW 23rd/Savier, 4:30 pm.

EVERY SUNDAY MUNCH; Chen's Village, 10845 NE Halsey, 1:00 pm.

BEAVERTON MUNCH; 1st & 3rd TUESDAY of each month munch; McMenamin's, Beaverton Mall, Cedar Hills and Jenkins. 7:00 pm.

VANCOUVER MUNCH; 2nd and 4th Wednesdays, North Bank Tavern (downtown WA). On going fundraiser for Lifeforce.

EUGENE MUNCH ala Conrad; IZZY's Pizza, 12249 Hilyard near U of O in Eugene, Monday 6-9 PM.

CORVALLIS MUNCH; Every Tuesday 7-9pm, J.C's Pizza at corner 3rd and Jefferson, upstairs.

Rose City Discussion Club (RCDC) World Headquarters
P.O. Box 1370, Clackamas, Oregon 97015
Hotline (503) 650-7052

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