D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Essays

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The D/s lifestyle is quite broad, encompassing many different elements and is expressed differently by each person participating. We understand that in the realm of adult, consensual sexual expression there are no rights or wrongs, merely a continuum of preferences and levels of intensities. As individual an experience as D/s can be, there are common threads, terms and practices. We can all learn from one another, gain insight, learn tips and tricks found effective by others in this lifestyle.

for the submissive

mystre
some rules for the submissive

lucasta
submissive not stupid

miria hunter
so you want to be a slave: the realities
preparing the gift for giving

variorum
submissive souls

the screamer
the slave's prayer

for the dominant

mystre
some rules for the dominant

ragnarok
d&s: a dominants point of view

mindful1
one dominants journey

sir magic
ds lessons i have learned

mistress odette
an interview on dominance

variorum
masterful words

fencer cabot
what do doms fear?

life essays

dalai lama
dalai lama's instructions for life

dr. susan block
ten commandments
to a man's pleasure

dr. susan block
ten commandments
to a woman's pleasure

robert g. benson
slut and spiritual sexuality

lizard amazon
advice to a slut

jenner
on cheating

sir magic
soulmates and predestined love

d/s and bdsm articles

variorum
a collar and its meanings

beginning b&d, sm, d/s
handbooks, essays, links
sm players handbook
beginners guide to
dominance and submission

miria hunter
trust: the foundation
establishing limits: going full circle
safewords: to red or not to red

tammad ramillia
safe, sane, consensual

sparrow
making the leap from irc to rl

isobel silkwood
not facing reality

softwhisper
living & dying in the d/s lifestyle

tanonymous
bdsm and its relationship to self esteem
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co-dependence and power exchange
bdsm myths in our community
the s letters
titles and sm
social or sexual?
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old guard
humiliation and sm
hurt vs. harm
signs your partner may be abusive
abuse vs. aggression
dominant vs. asshole
top abuse - yes it can happen
dominant burnout
how not to keep a top happy
nurturing and ds relationships

national bondage club of america
official nbca dictionary

tanonymous
the frugal pervert

tammad ramillia
bdsm play partner check list

jay weisman
dungeon monitor essay

bdsm safety essays

jay weisman
on safety

the screamer
offline/online bdsm safety

unknown
online predators and red flags

imput from mdom
importance of a safety net

powererotics foundation
abuse vs. erotic power exchange

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